I highly recommend Victoria House for a destination wedding - mostly because that's where I got married!

The people there were so great in helping me plan the wedding from Chicago. I never went down to the property before the wedding and everything was perfect. Feel free to contact me if have any questions at all -
kmorrell32@hotmail.com. One thing (this may have changed as I got married in April 2006), but if you have a wedding there, all of your guests have to stay there. Just wanted to clarify that because of the other post.
My wedding had 35 people - we rented the 3 houses and some other rooms. But having the big house was nice because it had a kitchen, we had a party out by the pool one night (catered by VH) and we had our reception and dinner out in front of the house by the beach. The houses are good for kids.
Congratulations!